The word you mean, of course, is modicum. And oui, yes. There is some sense to not letting the opinions of others dictate how you live your life - I like men. This is not a thing I hide. I do not let the opinions of the Westboro Baptist people and their hatemongering followers dissuade me from sleeping with men.

However, you make your actions and choices readily available for public consumption, but then you do not like what others have to say about these things. Your only response so far as been, 'No one is getting hurt, therefore I do not care what your opinions are.' This is foolish.

It is simple. If you do not want others to comment, do not post things where they can see them.