I don't disagree with you. I've never been unwilling to be pulled up on bad behaviour, that I remember.
I'm currently studying to be a doctor however, so social situations sometimes disappear from my radar in the smoke screen that is my life right now.
(Another part of being an adult, however. Accepting when you make a mistake and seeking to make amends/not do it again)
I think the caring would depend on the person doing the commenting. Like you said, someone commenting just to complain about things they don't understand or have a non-agreeable attitude about and my behaviour or actions are unlikely to change.
Someone who I have respect for though? I'm not sure I would entirely change my behaviour but I might make it less public if it offended.
Sometimes there's no way to compromise though. People will make their opinion of you obvious and you just have to accept it, even if you disagree. This is what I meant when I said 'not care', which I suppose means more 'am resigned to a thing unlikely to change'
Not that anyone here has Fallen into that place, of course.
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Date: 2016-04-28 08:42 am (UTC)I'm currently studying to be a doctor however, so social situations sometimes disappear from my radar in the smoke screen that is my life right now.
(Another part of being an adult, however. Accepting when you make a mistake and seeking to make amends/not do it again)
I think the caring would depend on the person doing the commenting. Like you said, someone commenting just to complain about things they don't understand or have a non-agreeable attitude about and my behaviour or actions are unlikely to change.
Someone who I have respect for though? I'm not sure I would entirely change my behaviour but I might make it less public if it offended.
Sometimes there's no way to compromise though. People will make their opinion of you obvious and you just have to accept it, even if you disagree. This is what I meant when I said 'not care', which I suppose means more 'am resigned to a thing unlikely to change'
Not that anyone here has Fallen into that place, of course.